I have had a spate of attacks on this blog by extremists and racists. My comment policy at the top of the page clearly states that I will delete such comments. One particularly nasty one I left up and even wrote a post about it. Why ?
Because I want people to know…
I want people to see the kind of opinions some people hold. About me, about other women bloggers, about other bloggers of colour, about the issues I write about.
I want people to know that sometimes this is not easy.
I want people to read and react.
I want to feel solidarity with the community I have tried to build here.
Don’t get me wrong. Trolls are a waste of time, space and energy. They are out there and they will always have more time on their hands than we do. As a friend said to me today, they don’t care how they might affect you. In fact they probably get enormous pleasure from knowing they have angered you.
So I am reclaiming this blog for my small community by asking for one message from each of you. One sentence or even one word that reminds us that we are here. That we are together. That we far outnumber the racists and xenophobes. That we stand together to make a change, however small. And that we will not be broken by ignorance and prejudice.
and a reminder for the Trolls
SHOULD YOU COMMENT ON THIS BLOG?
If you think that sexism/racism/homophobia is over, do not comment.
If you have ten or less standard responses to sexism/racism/homophobia, do not comment.
If you cannot see anything beyond the colour of my skin or my gender. do not comment.
If you are going to call me by some demeaning endearment like cupcake, baby or darling, do not comment.
If you feel so threatened by me that you need to become a big-mouthed bully, do not comment.
If you feel compelled to write the same comment on many different blogs, do not comment.
If you have read 5% of what I actually wrote and made up the rest, do not comment.
If you get a kick out of putting people down, do not comment.
If you are going to go away and write a feeble, insulting post about me and then try and advertise it here, do not comment.
If you disagree with what I say but cannot cope with people responding, do not comment.
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